Love Test – Do You Know How To Burn In The Fire Of Love?
Uncover your blocks to a fabulous love life with a simple Love Test. And learn how to use a magical fuel that sparks the fire of love in any relationship.
Love Test – Do You Know How To Use A Relationship Compass?
Feeling lost or uncertain where your relationship is heading? Learn how to get on the best course for happiness in dating or long-term relationships.
Romantic Rescue – How Do You Grow From Relationship Boredom To Bliss?
Is your relationship dying of boredom? Learn 10 ways to revive the romance and renew the excitement in your intimate relationship with smart love tips.
Love Test – What’s The One Thing You Must Do To Be Happy In A Relationship?
Discover an exciting tool that boosts happiness in your life and relationships. Learn how to use this simple tool to attract or create a happy relationship now.
Episode 25 – Do You Know The Best Way To Heal A Toxic Relationship?
Are you involved in a toxic relationship? Find out when you take a simple Love Test. Learn the best new tool to repair and rebuild your romantic relationship now.
Love Test – Why Do Smart People Become A Fool In Love?
Discover why your IQ does not predict your success in romantic relationships as well as your EQ. Learn how to raise your EQ with smart Love Tips.
Love Test – Why Do Smart People Become A Fool In Love?
Discover why your IQ does not predict your success in romantic relationships as well as your EQ. Learn how to raise your EQ with smart Love Tips.
Infidelity In Film – Does Mr. Holland’s Opus Show You How To Save A Marriage?
Hollywood films that deal with infidelity often portray the delights of a fresh romance and the resulting damage in the familiar relationship, in the affair or in both.
I noticed a refreshing formula change in Mr. Holland’s Opus–the 1995 film now revived on Showtime for its timeless themes and performances.
Mr. Holland’s Opus asks soulful questions about enduring marriages:
If you put your career dreams on hold for the good of your relationship, what happens when you are tempted by a seductive chance to revive your dreams and start fresh? Is your enduring relationship disposable or worth preserving?
Richard Dreyfuss opens a window into his soul as he faces these questions in the title role of Glen Holland, a frustrated composer who finds fulfillment as a high school music teacher, a husband and father.
He lets his wife, played with gentle brilliance by Gleanne Headley, deal with challenges of having a deaf son who can’t share his father’s love of music until his father has a change of heart.
This change is prompted by his irresistible attraction to a gifted student. It begins when Glen Holland nurtures the immense singing talents of a high school senior for the class musical. He writes a gorgeous song which he names after her but never shows her, thereby channeling his sexual attraction creatively.
His student responds to his encouragement to fulfill her dream as a singer in New York. She invites him to go to New York with her to fulfill their vast musical talents and their passionate attraction.
Glen Holland digs deep into his core values, trying to resist his primal urge to accept her offer. Richard Dreyfuss is riveting in his silent soul searching.
Then he makes a brave decision to do what’s best for both of them. It’s a choice that protects her and his marriage, and this nourishes future growth in his relationships with his wife and son.
How many couples have made the alternate decision to dispose of the familiar relationship in favor of tempting delight of starting fresh? How many families and dreams were broken apart because of it? The divorce statistics are heartbreaking.
I’m wondering if couples need to learn how to say no to temptation for the well being of their families and themselves. If so, I suggest you watch Mr. Holland’s Opus to see how this choice is made and ultimately rewarded by the profound fulfillment of revived dreams and resilient family love.
And if you’re single and dating, I suggest you watch this film to get a realistic view of the joys and challenges of an enduring relationship.
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Love Test – How Does The Ghost Of Fear Make Success And Love Disappear?
The ghost of fear has the power to sabotage your success, intuition, health, happiness and love. Find out why fear is a ghost and learn how to make it disappear so nothing stands in your way of loving and living your dreams now.
Why is fear a ghost?
FEAR is an acronym for False Events Appearing Real. All forms of fear and negativity are an illusion, since only love is real.
We have scientific proof that love is the highest energetic vibration, and the dominant vibration always wins.
Accept this reality and you become a ghost-buster of fear.
Deny this reality, and you give up your power to an illusive but dangerous ghost.
Why are ghosts of fear so dangerous?
They often stay hidden in your subconscious mind, so you are unaware of their harmful presence.
They are sneaky thieves who steal your focus, your enthusiasm and your dreams, because you let them stay in hiding.
How do you get rid of them?
Shed light on them. Identify which common ghost of fear is stealing your dreams. Then you can be your own ghost-buster.
In his timeless book, Think and Grow Rich, the late author Napoleon Hill, used the wisdom of Andrew Carnegie to identify six ghosts of fear in the order of their most common appearance:
The fear of poverty, the fear of criticism and the fear of ill health are the cause of most of your worries.
The fear of lost love, the fear of old age and the fear of death are three powerful ghosts that may haunt you.
All other fears are less important and can usually be grouped within these six categories.
What do these 6 basic fears have in common?
They are nothing more than states of mind and impulses of thought. Fortunately, every human being has the ability to control and direct your own mind and thoughts.
When you give up your thought control to ghosts of fear, you often give up your enthusiasm, focus, initiative, imagination, and self control.
In the clutches of fear, you cannot love fully nor form healthy friendships, so you often feel lonely and remain alone.
How do free yourself from the grasp of fear?
Know that thoughts are things. Since everything you create begins with a thought, you can create new thought habits to remain focused on love and gratitude. You can choose new outlooks and action plans to realize your dreams.
I often tell our online community, “What you see will be, with correct action.”
How do you see the brightest you and fulfill your best dreams?
This is a simple Love Test. The same way you flip a light switch to erase the darkness, you flip your thought switch to erase the ghosts of fear.
Each time you switch focus to love and gratitude, this dominant vibration wins. When you do this consistently each day for a month, it becomes a new habit that revives your enthusiasm and frees you to take daily steps to realize your dreams of success, happiness, and love.
Now you can use this secret key to success and love to improve an existing relationship.
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Dedicated to your dating and relationship happiness,
Hadley Finch
Love Test For Dating Singles – What Do You Desire or Require In Your Best Match?
The Love Tests you present and receive in a dating relationship help you identify a compatible match.
If you enjoy dating because of its entertainment value and you want to stay single and available, then you simply need to find a series of dates who enjoy your company.
Serial dating is a series of start ups and break ups. If there’s no emotional connection between partners in a dating relationship, break ups are often a breeze. Then it’s NEXT!
If you are dating as a way to meet your best match and enjoy a committed relationship, it’s important to ask yourself a series of questions before you go out on another date.
There is no value judgment intended in these questions. They simply help you discover what you value and whether you desire or require a match who shares your values.
How important is a date’s career success, home address, physical appearance, bank account?
Are you more concerned about how you look with your date than how you communicate?
Do you want to raise a family or blend families if you already have children?
Do you want to remain childless and step-childless so you are free to pursue your own goals and dreams?
Have you reached a balance in your professional and personal life, or do you feel too busy for a relationship?
Do you desire or require a monogamous relationship?
Are you interested in connecting on a soulful, emotional level in a romantic relationship?
Are you seeking intimacy in body, mind and spirit?
Do you want to bare your soul before your body in a new relationship?
Are you willing to develop some emotional intimacy before you explore a sexual connection?
Do you know the difference between lust and sexual passion, which can be mistaken for love?
Do you want to know and be known without secrets with a partner who supports your well being?
Do you believe love is all you need–or love is not enough without common values?
Do you appreciate all the wonderful qualities that you bring to a relationship?
Are you eager to share your best and bring out the best in your love match?
By answering these questions, you’ve clarified your views and values at this point in your life.
Now go back and rate each question in terms of your best match.
Do you care if your match does not share your values?
Do you desire or require similar views on life and love in your best match?
Discovering this information helps you become a conscious dater who easily identifies dates who aren’t on your wavelength.
This discovery process can be fun and entertaining as you ask the right questions and choose a match who wants to create the same type of relationship. Then feel free to let your dating romance grow into a soulful, loving relationship.
And if you’re single and seeking your best match, enjoy a free months membership in the new singles club in Tribe Of Blondes.
Not a hair color, it’s a resilient optimism that unites us and fuels our adventures in loving and living our dreams.
No more blind dates, since you meet our savvy Tribe Of Singles in video chats and travel vacations.
We don’t post your age, so you can meet your love match at any age.
Ready to claim your singles free trial membership now?
Simply click SINGLES CLUB in the menu bar and sign up. Enjoy!
Dedicated to your dating and relationship happiness,
Hadley Finch
